I have just finished the movie a mintues ago, it inspired and confused me in the same way about the thing between men and women. The question just popping up into my head,
do men and women really can't be friends?
Harry
what I'm saying - and this is not a come-on in any, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends. The sex part always gets in the way.
Sally
That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there's no sex involved.
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You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry
No, I'm saying they all want to have sex with you.
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Because no man can be friends with a woman he finds attractive. He always want to have sex with her.
Sally
So you're saying a men can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive.
Yes, What's the lines !!
So, it means every men who have motive to meet woman, because they want to have sex with them ultimately. And the friendship with men and women seems doesn't mean anything for existing. It also said a single woman shouldn't being friends with man, cause the friendship won't turn to be a romantic relationship eventually.
I am starting to believe my point of view, as I am always misunderstanding that having more male friends can make me feel better, or believing myself still beautiful or attractive in some way, also forgetting the loneliness. But obviously this kind of relationship only can be a temporary comfort for each other. The first sight is always my most supportive act in love story, cause if you don't have a passion on the first sight, how could it happen later on?
So, what if man find unattractive with woman in the relationship, what do they expect form woman? Why they still keeping the friendship? There are several reasons, 1.They want to get know the hot girl throught this woman, 2. Having a woman point of view when they have a trouble in relationship. 3. Having a comfort when they feel lonely(not includ the sex comfort) 4.Being proud (only for the female friends is hot). I think No.1 and 4 are having most possibility.
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